Nothing Changes Unless You Do

I listened to the discussion and thought I’ve heard it all before. Nothing new. He doesn’t listen. Never helps. So this has been going on for over 50 years. If things haven’t changed in that long, what makes you think by complaining it will make a difference?

Instead of complaining, why not change the way you react? What can you do differently? How can you cope and not be upset? Think about solutions for you.

Instead of being bitter, say to yourself “only I can make a difference.” Instead of wishing for the impossible look for something that is working or make a plan and follow through. Change your self-talk.

As I’ve often said “We are the boss of ourselves.” No one can upset us unless we let them.